Posts Tagged ‘growth in relationship’
Will You Forsake Your Sexuality for Security?
I speak to women all the time who are facing a major dilemma about how they’ve set up their lives: they have chosen a relationship that makes them feel safe, cared for, stable, and is a good place to raise their children. They have the consistency and show-up-ness of a steady, committed partner that makes [...]
5 Reasons Why Most People Lack Sexual Confidence
When I ask people what they most want for their sexual lives, they often say they really want more confidence. Helping people to build confidence is a huge part of my work with clients, and it’s a huge result of the work we do. So why do most people seem to lack sexual confidence? There [...]
Shame Kills Sex
This material is adapted from Amy Jo’s free telecall, “The 5 Biggest Mistakes Couples Make When It Comes to Sex… and What to Do About It.” The third common mistake couples makes is that they don’t deal with shame. Shame is keeping one or both partners from connecting or being closer and neither of them [...]
No More Sexless Holidays!
It’s that holiday time again, the time of joy, cheer, holy union, time to be with family, the warmest time of the year, right? So many expectations go into the holidays and what will happen. If you are in a new relationship there is the new relationship giddiness, or meeting the family for the first [...]
How to Get What You Want in Relationships
Amy Jo Goddard & Marcia Baczynski share strategies on how to ask for and get what you want in intimate relationships.
Stop Giving Away Your Power! Wield it!
I subscribe to “Notes from the Universe”, delicious little reminders of our power to create the lives we want that come to my inbox every Monday to Friday. I just love them. This week the Universe sent a really good one that I want to share: “Here are the top 10 ways people give away [...]
How Do I Get More Confidence?
I have been teaching sexuality for so long and over the years when I ask people—women in particular—what they think they need in order to feel sexually empowered, without reservation, the number one answer I get the most is “I want more confidence” or “I want more sexual confidence.” My conclusion? Most people want more [...]
What About Desire?
If you’ve read my articles you know I see sexual energy, creative energy and spiritual energy as coming from the same well. We have a desire for sex, for affection, for a lover, to create art and beauty, or to connect to the divine, and if that desire is there, then the energy and material [...]
Sex and Love Mentors
Sometimes when we are struggling to love ourselves as much as we wish we could, somebody comes into our lives and they love us so fiercely, so big and so wholly, that they teach us how to love ourselves. They become our model for our own self-love.
What is Erotic Authenticity?
I believe that to become fully sexually empowered, we must explore our erotic nature and stop making assumptions about what it is or what it wants. We must stop judging ourselves by telling ourselves what we “should” be.
