Posts Tagged ‘personal needs’
Confidence in the Boardroom and the Bedroom
It’s easy to look at a powerhouse woman who makes big business deals, runs huge organizations, or influences the masses and think she’ll be a sexy powerhouse in all things seduction, flirtation, sex and drip. But that equation rarely adds up so cleanly. It would be nice if we could take our natural born talent […]
5 Reasons Why Most People Lack Sexual Confidence
When I ask people what they most want for their sexual lives, they often say they really want more confidence. Helping people to build confidence is a huge part of my work with clients, and it’s a huge result of the work we do. So why do most people seem to lack sexual confidence? There […]
Soulmate Search: How to Find “The One”
It’s Valentine’s Day and I thought it would be apropos to talk about finding “the one” because this Hallmark holiday is built around supporting couples—people who have ostensibly found their one true love. I’ve always disliked that—what about the solo folks who do not identify themselves as part of a pair? How about the unabashedly […]
Sexual Self-Actualization
I still find it amazing that Abraham Maslow thought only 1% of people would actually self-actualize. He had a name for our underperformance: “the psychopathology of normality,” that is, the fact that “most of us function most of the time on a level lower than that of self-actualization.” I think most people want to see themselves as […]
The 5 Major Myths About Sex and Money
This material is adapted from Amy Jo’s teleclass, “The 10 Ways Sex and Money Are Connected.” I want to share the five major myths about sexuality with you, and in the spirit of looking at the connections between sex and money, I think you’ll be surprised at the ways these myths overlap. 1. “Sex […]
Talking About Taboos
How often do you filter yourself and prevent yourself from speaking up about something that needs to be spoken? The world would be completely different if we were all fully self-expressed. That doesn’t mean everything has to be said, because it doesn’t and learning what doesn’t need to be said can be as important as […]
Sex & Money 101
As I continue to incorporate the connection between Sex and Money into my work, I am asked over and over again, “How exactly are sex and money connected?” I found myself explaining some of the myriad ways they are connected and decided if they had those questions, you probably do too. It’s not always immediately […]
Are you sacrificing sex for your relationship?
This material is adapted from Amy Jo’s teleclass, “The 5 Biggest Mistakes Couples Make When It Comes to Sex… and What to Do About It.” Finally, the fifth biggest mistake that couples make about sex is that they settle for whatever they have, thinking it’s normal. They don’t get any help or talk to anyone […]
Blame and Guilt will Slay Your Sex Life
This material is adapted from Amy Jo’s teleclass, “The 5 Biggest Mistakes Couples Make When It Comes to Sex… and What to Do About It.” The fourth mistake couples make when it comes to sex involves blaming the other person for sexual issues, as if blame and guilt will inspire their partner to “fix” it. […]
Is your sex life on auto-pilot?
This material is adapted from Amy Jo’s free telecall, “The 5 Biggest Mistakes Couples Make When It Comes to Sex… and What to Do About It.” Right now I’m doing a series on the 5 biggest mistakes I see couples make with sexuality and relationships, and the one I want to share today has to […]
